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Navigating the Inner Compass: Gut Feeling vs. Paranoia/Trauma

We all experience that inner nudge, a subtle feeling that whispers "something's off" or guides us towards the right path. This, my friend, is intuition . It's a powerful tool, but sometimes, it can be difficult to distinguish it from paranoia or the echoes of past trauma . Honing Your Intuition: Sensitivity is a skill, not a birthright: While some may possess a natural inclination towards their gut feelings, it's a skill that can be nurtured by anyone. Pay close attention to your physical sensations around different people and situations. A knot in your stomach, a sudden chill, or a shift in your breathing can be subtle cues from your inner compass. Observe, don't judge: Notice how you feel in various environments, even if they appear outwardly pleasant. Trust these subtle signals without judgment. They are valuable pieces of information that your unconscious mind has processed, picking up on nuances your conscious mind might miss. Distinguishing the W...

Celebrate Your Own Love Story: Ditch the Comparisons and Embrace Happiness!

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It's easy to fall into the trap of comparing our own relationships to the seemingly perfect portrayals we see online or in social media. But remember, every love story is unique, and judging your private chapters against someone else's carefully curated highlight reel is a recipe for unhappiness. Here's why comparing relationships is pointless, and what you can do instead: 1. Comparisons are Apples to Oranges: Every couple has their own "manual" for their relationship. What works for one might not work for another. Comparing your behind-the-scenes moments to someone else's carefully crafted public image is like comparing apples to oranges. It's simply not an accurate representation of their actual relationship dynamics. 2. Focus on Your Own Growth: Instead of getting caught up in the "hate" of comparison, shift your energy towards celebrating and nurturing your own love story. What makes your relationship special? What are you grateful for? Wh...

Men, We Hear You: Your Feelings Matter. Let's Talk.

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The recent tragedy of a young Venezuelan man who shared his pain before taking his life serves as a stark reminder: mental health struggles, especially among men, are a serious issue. Society often pressures men to suppress their emotions, portraying vulnerability as weakness. This harmful narrative creates a culture of silence, making men feel invisible and unheard. The man's Facebook post, a desperate cry for help, highlights the heartbreaking reality: sometimes, help doesn't come until it's too late. This is a call to action. To any man struggling with depression or suicidal thoughts, please know: you are not alone. Your pain is real, your feelings matter, and help is available. Reach out to a trusted friend, family member, therapist, or call a helpline. There are people who care and want to support you. Remember, whatever you're going through, it's temporary . There is hope, and there is a way forward. Let's break the silence. Let's talk. Let's make...

Relationship Tips For Guys

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SEXUAL ENHANCEMENT DRUGS DO NOT GIVE EXTRA PLEASURE. Read again: NO EXTRA PLEASURE. It ONLY DELAYS EJACULATION which, in street terms, means "LAST LONGER". But the longer you last, the more pressure on your heart. Yes: ON YOUR HEART. Even during normal intercourse, your heartbeat rate increases by between FORTY and FIFTY PER CENT when you reach orgasm and about discharging. Have you asked why most men sleep off after sex? Now, when you take sexual enhancement drugs, it gets to a stage when you feel you have had enough and all you want is ejaculation. But it won't come. To force it, you have to get the heart, ALREADY STRESSED, TO DO EXTRA WORK!! hmmm. By that time, if your HEART is not strong enough, God will just show mercy on you and call you home. And after initial shock, we start preparing your burial. And trust me, if they fry puff-puff, I will eat because I will not cry. Let her call you "TWO MINUTES NOODLES". Don't feel bad. Let her go and meet her ...