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Let me share a bit of wisdom with my fellow Black South Africans on this matter. Anyone who thinks they can use this situation to bring her down clearly hasn't thought it through. The reality is, all they've done is give her an enormous amount of attention—the kind of publicity she absolutely deserves in this ongoing Miss Universe competition. Ironically, it’s an event that many Nigerians might not even have been actively following until now. But because of this, Nigerian social media warriors are now in full force! And let’s be honest, when it comes to voting power, it’s game over. The numbers are undeniable, and it’s only $1 for three votes. Every single one of her social media pages is buzzing with energy and traffic right now, which is only helping her visibility and, ultimately, her revenue. Whether she clinches the title or not, she’s already securing the bag, profiting from this momentum, and building a following that will outlast the competition. So, to the detractors—t...

  A Guide to Living with Kindness, Humility, and Respect In our busy, fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in everyday struggles and forget the qualities that truly bring peace and fulfillment. Living a meaningful, compassionate life is a journey that requires mindfulness and dedication. Here, we’ll discuss the "Seven Pillars of Life," which serve as guiding principles to nurture kindness, humility, and respect in our lives. Practicing these pillars helps create a more positive environment not only for ourselves but also for those around us. 1. Gratitude Gratitude is the foundation of a joyful and fulfilled life. By recognizing the good things in our lives—both big and small—we cultivate appreciation. When we appreciate what we have, we are less likely to envy others, and more likely to be generous and compassionate. Practicing gratitude also helps us remain humble, as it reminds us that many of our blessings are gifts rather than entitlements. Actionable Tip: Start ...

Favoritism is a delicate topic in parenting, and while many parents aim to love their children equally, subtle differences in treatment can have lasting effects on a child's emotional and psychological development. As illustrated in the Netflix series *This Is Us* , favoritism often emerges even when intentions are noble. In the show, a white couple adopts a black boy and lavishes extra love on him, hoping to help him feel included and secure. However, this causes resentment from one of their biological children, who grows to feel neglected, ultimately harboring negative feelings toward his adopted brother. Favoritism can take many forms—whether it’s more attention, better opportunities, or even emotional warmth—and even if it seems insignificant at first, children are acutely aware of these disparities. Here are several potential consequences when favoritism is shown among children: 1. Feelings of Resentment and Jealousy When one child is favored, siblings may become resentful. Th...