The Scales 🤳⚖️™️

This is based on my own experience as a man. I didn't copy it from anywhere, so anyone is free to share their views or counter me. This is my blog, so I don't mind any feedback. Now, there are many things' ladies don't know about us guys. This has led to a lot of misconceptions and disenchantment from both sexes. I read a lot of comments here and realized that most ladies don't understand much about the makeup of a man. I believe that the ladies will learn a lot if they realize some basic truths about us. 1. **Men don't want only sex from you: ** Many ladies believe or think that the only thing guys want from them is sex. This is why they enter a relationship with that as the only resource they bring, hoping the guy will do anything for them as long as he's getting sex. This is wrong. Men may like sex, but it's not the only thing they want in a relationship. A guy needs a lady who will understand him, stand by him, and encourage him to reach his full pot...

Life often teaches us some of its harshest lessons through the simplest of metaphors. Consider the umbrella, a faithful companion during a storm. It shelters us, keeps us dry, and provides comfort against the elements. But once the rain ceases, that very umbrella, so crucial moments ago, becomes a cumbersome burden. This transition captures a painful truth about loyalty and human relationships: when the benefits cease, so too does the loyalty. In our lives, many people flock to us not for who we are but for the value we bring and the benefits they can derive from us. They thrive on the opportunities, support, and advantages we offer. As long as we are useful, as long as we can provide shelter from life's storms, we are cherished and needed. But when the rain stops—when the benefits diminish—these same people often disappear, leaving us to ponder the true nature of our connections. This realization can be incredibly disheartening. We yearn for genuine relationships, for loyalty that...

DON'T SEE YOUR PROBLEM AS A STUMBLING BLOCK: The first thing that comes to the mind of most people with problems is that they begin to see their problems as limitations to their success. The moment you begin to see your problems as stumbling blocks, you start to have more problems because worry sets in, fear sets in, and these are other major problems on their own. The truth is the way you see your problems determines how they will affect you. If you see your problems as the walls of Jericho (that cannot be broken down) rather than opportunities in disguise, then problems will affect you more than they are supposed to. But if you see your problems as opportunities in disguise then you will be able to tackle them and get the message that the problems are trying to pass across to you. REMAIN POSlTIVE: The greatest of men are known to always remain calm when they face problems. They are used to speaking positively so when they face problems, they still remain positive. I once heard th...