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  Hey Sis... 🤔 Let’s talk about a truth that many women may not realize about men and relationships. Men attend to women for two main reasons— Sex and Love. But here’s the surprising part: when it comes to marriage, men don’t necessarily marry for sex or even love. Instead, they marry for stability. What Does This Mean? A man can love you deeply but still not marry you. A man can have a sexual relationship with you for years and never propose. However, the moment he meets a woman who brings stability into his life, he doesn’t hesitate to make her his wife. So, what exactly does stability mean? It’s peace of mind. The Role of Stability in a Man’s Decision to Marry Many women have heard men say, "I love her, but I don’t think I can spend the rest of my life with her." This statement might be confusing, but it makes perfect sense when you understand how men think. Men are visionaries by nature. When they think about marriage, they don’t focus on wedding dresses, ...

  In many religious circles, a recurring pattern emerges—people elevate their spiritual leaders to an almost untouchable status. They see them as infallible, treating their words as absolute truth and sometimes even prioritizing them over personal relationships. In extreme cases, this devotion leads people to distance themselves from family and friends who don’t share the same level of admiration for these leaders. This phenomenon is more widespread than we often acknowledge. Respecting spiritual leaders is important. They offer guidance, provide encouragement, and often play a crucial role in personal growth. However, there’s a fine line between respecting someone and placing them on a pedestal where they are beyond reproach. No matter how knowledgeable or charismatic a person is, they are still human—capable of making mistakes, having flaws, and experiencing personal struggles. A title, whether it be ‘pastor,’ ‘prophet,’ ‘imam,’ or ‘spiritual father,’ does not make someone sup...

Nigeria, Africa’s most populous nation and one of its largest economies, has long been hijacked by political corruption and elite dominance. Over the years, a small group of powerful individuals has transformed the country’s political landscape into a cartel-like network—where power, resources, and decision-making are controlled by a select few for personal gain. Much like a business cartel that stifles competition and monopolizes industries, Nigeria’s political system is dominated by a handful of families, former military rulers, business tycoons, and traditional elites. This grip on power became even stronger after the return to democracy in 1999, as these elites merged their interests to control governance. They act as kingmakers, deciding who gets elected—from local government councils to the presidency. Instead of allowing true democratic competition, they manipulate the system to ensure only their loyalists rise to power. They fund campaigns, control party structures, and influen...

Nothing unsettles someone who mistreated you more than seeing you happy, thriving, and completely unbothered by their absence. Especially if they once believed you couldn’t live without them or assumed they were too important in your life to be replaced. People who have wronged you often keep tabs on you, even from a distance. They secretly wonder how you’re doing, whether you’ve moved on, and if their departure or betrayal has left you broken. But here’s the truth: the best revenge isn’t anger or bitterness—it’s living well. Your happiness, success, and inner peace are the ultimate proof that they never had the control over you they once thought they did. When someone has hurt you, their deepest fear isn’t your retaliation; it’s your indifference. It’s realizing that their presence—or absence—was never as crucial as they imagined. The moment they see you smiling, glowing, and growing without them, they’re forced to confront the harsh truth: they never had the power they assumed they ...