Why Men Prioritize Stability Over Love and Passion in Marriage

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Let’s talk about a truth that many women may not realize about men and relationships.

Men attend to women for two main reasons—Sex and Love. But here’s the surprising part: when it comes to marriage, men don’t necessarily marry for sex or even love. Instead, they marry for stability.

What Does This Mean?

A man can love you deeply but still not marry you.
A man can have a sexual relationship with you for years and never propose.

However, the moment he meets a woman who brings stability into his life, he doesn’t hesitate to make her his wife.

So, what exactly does stability mean? It’s peace of mind.

The Role of Stability in a Man’s Decision to Marry

Many women have heard men say, "I love her, but I don’t think I can spend the rest of my life with her." This statement might be confusing, but it makes perfect sense when you understand how men think.

Men are visionaries by nature. When they think about marriage, they don’t focus on wedding dresses, extravagant receptions, or romantic fantasies. Instead, they ask themselves:

✔️ Can this woman build me a home?
✔️ Can she take care of me and our future children?
✔️ Can she give me peace of mind?

Why "Peace of Mind" Matters More Than Love or Sex

Men don’t like discomfort, and they avoid anything that brings unnecessary stress into their lives. This is why a man can be in a long-term relationship with one woman but then meet another woman and decide to marry her within months. It’s not necessarily because he loves the second woman more; it’s because she offers him comfort and stability.

Sex is a pleasure.
Love is an affection.
But respect? That’s stability.

When a woman provides peace, emotional balance, and respect, she becomes the one a man chooses for life.

Ladies, if you’re wondering why a man hasn’t proposed despite being with you for years, ask yourself:

❓ Does he see me as his source of peace?
❓ Do I bring him stability in his life?
❓ Do I support his vision and respect his journey?

Love and passion may spark a relationship, but stability is what makes a man choose a wife.

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