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  WHAT HAPPENED TO THAT DREAM? ......................Real Olufemi ....................... Dream, a mental picture of the future. Dream, an aspiration and ambition to be something. The truth is that everybody have a dream to be something in life. Some wants to be a doctor, lawyer, banker, a businessman, the list is endless. Infact, not wanting to be anything is still considered a dream( ). Some achieve theirs in their life time, while some don't. Go to the cemetery you will see great men and women who could not achieve their dreams during their time on earth. The big question here is, why? What happened on the way to success? The major factor behind why many people won't or did not achieve their dream, is focus. I talked so much about this in my past write-up on all my social media platforms. Don't loose the focus'. My point of emphasis is enticement. Why enticement you may ask. One of the greatest trick the devil can play on you is to entice you. Many persons had great ...

  «<===VALUE==:>» Value your health. Take good care of yourself because many people pray just to be healthy like you. Health is wealth. Value your life, don't lose it. Don't even think of suicide because many people wished they had enough time to accomplish their dreams. You still have a chance to do that so why give up? Value your freedom because so many people are willing to spend all they have to buy their freedom. If you doubt this, go to the prisons. Value your parents irrespective of their status, whether rich or poor. If you think I'm wrong then go to orphanages and see how the kids wish they had someone they could call mother or father, no matter how bad they are. Value your friends because they are not easy to come by. Be a good friend too. Be left alone on an island for a year and see if you will not contemplate suicide. Value the food you eat, no matter how cheap because so many people have enough money to buy it but can't eat it because of their health...

  How does self-doubt prevent our growth? Self-doubt means that you don't trust yourself. When you don't trust yourself, you doubt everything you do. Mistrust and doubt only create more obstacles on the way. One of the reasons why people don't achieve success is not that they lack the ability but don't trust themselves enough. Doubts create negativity and you think more of failure than success. When the mind is full of negativity, it accepts failure easily. If you want to achieve success, you need to focus on making it happen. Begin everything with confidence. Trust your abilities. You can only achieve success when you leave your doubts behind.

 LIFE AS YOU SEE IT>>>> It is truly not always greener on the other side. Beatrice met her friend Favour two years after school, and Beatrice was driving a sleek Mercedes Benz. Favour went home weeping and feeling awful for herself. What she didn't know was that Beatrice had been sent to run an errand with the car. Christine always nagged about her husband for not being romantic by not getting down to open the car door for her as Jane's husband did when he dropped her at work. Christine didn't know that Jane's husband's car was faulty and the door could only be opened from the outside. Life does not have a universal measuring tool, so create yours and use it. Looking at people and comparing yourself with them will never make you happy, you'd continue to have pains of what is not even real. Matthew 6:25 said, Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more importa...

  <«= I FORGIVE YOU=»> I know we all have read a million articles on forgiveness and have heard a thousand speeches on the same. Nevertheless, it is very difficult to practice. I have discovered many people still find it very difficult to forgive. Forgiveness doesn't come easily to most of us. It's a decision. You decide to look beyond the fault of others, no matter how hurting you may be. Why? Forgiveness frees you. Every time someone hurts us, we are left with a feeling of hurt, anger, and vengeance. We find it very difficult to let go of the hurt someone has caused us. But forgiveness is just letting go of the hurt. It's not something you bestow on others, but a gift you give yourself. The hurt and pain someone has caused you may always be a part of your life, but forgiveness will help loosen its grip on you so that you can move on. If care is not taken, unforgiveness can affect your relationship with others. You tend to find it very difficult to trust, love and ca...

Love is a beautiful emotion. It can bring unknown people together, create strong ties and add meaning to life. Sometimes we meet someone in our life and feel very strongly for them. We want to be closer to them. When we love someone wholeheartedly, our hearts send special vibes. The beauty of love is that these vibes can always be felt and makes the person feel special. If you love someone, love wholeheartedly and unconditionally. They will always feel your love, although they might not always reciprocate it. Regardless of whether they stay in your life or not, with your pure love, you will always make a place in their heart.

  Are you feeling like giving up? If you are on the verge of giving up, probably you have tried enough and starting to feel weak. Maybe the challenge is beginning to appear bigger than your abilities to handle it. When we face a difficult challenge in life, sometimes it can become very overwhelming. It becomes even more difficult if we have tried to overcome it several times with no success. We often start to doubt ourselves and once we have self-doubts, we begin to crumble. At this point in time, we need to keep ourselves together and remind ourselves that no matter what we face in life, we are always more powerful than what we face. When you ever feel weak, take support from people you trust. Be inspired by other challenges you overcame in life. Above all, keep your trust, faith, and prayer. Praying will add to your strength.

Just because you lost me as a friend doesn't mean you gained me as an enemy. I'm bigger than that, I still wanna see you eat, just not at my table. Just Saying 😏

Tears and water may look alike, but they can never taste the same; anyone you kill to attain power and wealth has become a weapon against you in the spirit realm. They're people who have acquired so much, but the spirits of those they sacrificed to attained such dimensions have punctured their health, bewitched their offsprings, and rendered them peaceless.. The blessings of the Lord may take a while, but it is sustainable, peaceful, and profitable. Hold on to God🙏🏾🌹

  People lie in many situations and for many reasons. There are white lies, there are also bad lies. No matter what purpose people lie to, people are afraid of those who have a good memory. The truth is only one. To tell the truth, is only one way, but there are thousands of ways to lie. When people want to avoid the truth, people often think of a reasonable lie. But the rationality is not immutable. A lie that is reasonable in one situation is no longer valid in another. So liars often say something in two or more ways. And people with a good memory will detect this. Moreover, when people lie a part of the whole of a story, the logic of the story is often not strong enough. People with a good memory will easily link the facts together and discover unreasonable points. Therefore, the number one enemy of lies is the one who has a good memory. A liar's worst enemy is someone with a good memory. If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything.