LET THEM GO! IT IS FOR YOUR GOOD!

I have come to a strong conclusion from personal experience and by careful observation that for you to get to where God is taking you in life; certain people have to leave your life.

Permit me to tell you that in order for you to get to that great height God has prepared specially for you; there are certain people that must walk out of your life.

There are times that the greatest blessing you can receive from God is when some people leave your life.

However, the interesting and pathetic thing is that most of us hold tenaciously unto those people that we should let go.

There is something I humorously call the "gift of goodbye". Don't be stingy with that gift when people choose to leave your life.

When somebody who is pulling you down chooses to leave your life, you may not realize it initially, but that person just did you a great favour. 

Don't look back on such an occasion; instead keep looking forward and you will see and experience the new thing God wants to do in your life as a result of the person leaving.

The hard truth is that at times, all of us will have people that will leave our lives. 

The people leaving may not necessarily be bad people. It may just be that the season for that relationship is over. You and I may not understand it but God knows what He is doing.

It may be that the person is holding you back somehow. Maybe he or she is keeping you from spreading your wings or aspiring for your dreams. Maybe he or she is not being a good influence. You never can tell. But God knows best.

The truth I have also discovered from experience is that if you don't keep things stirred up, God will stir them for you.

When somebody leaves your life or a relationship is over, whether it is a friend, a business partner, a colleague, a neighbor or a coworker who goes his or her separate way, don't get upset. 

Don't even try to convince them to stay; because the truth is that when God is finished with something, there is no amount of evostic or super glue that can hold it together.

What you need to do is to let them go and let God do a new thing. 

It is important for you to understand that your destiny is not tied to the people who walk away from you but to God who will never leave you nor forsake you.

Just Saying😌

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