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Things Ladies Must Know About Guys. The Truth!

This is based on my own experience as a man, I didn't copy it from anywhere so anybody is free to air their view or counter me. Dis is a public forum so I no send a grin

Now there are many things ladies don't know abt us guys. Dis has led to a lot of misconception and disenchantment from both sexes. I read a lot of comments here and I realize that most ladies don't know anything about d makeup of a man. I believe that the ladies will learn a lot if they realize some basic truths about us.
1. Men don't want only sex from you: many ladies believe or think that the only thing guys want from dem is sex. Dis is why they go into a relationship with that resource only as wat they are bringing on board hoping dat the guy will do anything for dem as long as he's getting sex. This is wrong. Men may like sex but it's not d only thing they like or want in a relationship. A guy needs a lady who will understand him, who can stand by him and encourage him to reach his full potential, who can spur him on and always remind him that he can make it no matter all odds. A lady who can come into his life and put things right that were wrong, that can get him to be organized and focused, that can walk with him on d street, that can smile and laugh at his jokes, that can play with him and have a good time with him, that can love his family and respect him as a man. Some things are just more important than sex to guys.

2. It takes effort to woo a lady: ladies if u don't know it, know it now! It's not easy for a guy to stop a lady and share how he feels about her. It takes a lot of guts and also humility to do that. Men are naturally egoistic and don't like anything that puts dem down or makes dem look like they're begging especially when it comes to ladies. Understand that dis is natural and not that they enjoy acting that way, its a result of both nature and nurture.
Before a guy approaches u as a lady, many things must have gone thru his mind. How best to make d move, what to say, how to say it, how to smile, and all that. Dis cud take minutes or days or weeks or even months depending on d guy involved and d urgency. Some guys go thru sleepless nites thinking abt how to approach a particular lady, it's not easy. And times, the lady will still turn dem down and once dis happens, it becomes more difficult for him to repeat the cycle again. So ladies, when a guy approaches u pls don't put him down like u usually do. Find a way to help preserve his confidence and also pay him back for his effort cos it takes effort. If u don't like him, turn him down softly!

3. Guys are more emotional than you think: forget all the macho and strong man that most guys put on the surface. Guys are much more soft and emotional than they tend to present on the outer surface, even more, than ladies at times. We cry we fall in love, we get depressed at times, and we get frustrated. And the worst is that we hardly show it or speak out for people to help. Because of upbringing where guys are expected to absorb tension, we just bottle a lot of things up and keep dying inside. It takes a wise lady to unbottle these tensions and bring out the best in a guy.

4. Guys like spending money on ladies: Yes I said so! On the right ladies though. Once a guy loves you, he won't mind spending his last Dirham on you. A guy can buy his girl KFC and go home to eat Paratha. It's not because he's mumu or stupid, it's just how he values the lady in question. Guys love their resources and their whole heart. Unfortunately, many ladies believe that a guy who gives to a lady like that is a fool or mumu. That's why many guys now withdrew because one of the worst things you can ever do to a guy is to tamper with his ego, to make him feel like a fool when he was loving you. That's why a guy can love his girl and give her everything even while abandoning his own family and siblings.

5. Guys love sex: yes that is true. Guys love sex not because they just feel like loving it, but because they are wired to love it. A healthy man gets Attention even when he doesn't want to. Even when a man is sleeping, he gets Attention without realizing it. Just seeing a lady he likes can give a man Attention and that is how God made it. It's just that some guys do a good job of controlling it than others and you must respect those that do so because it's not easy. So when next you want to know why guys like sex, I suggest you ask God!

6. Guys are easy to manipulate: guys feel that it's their duty to help ladies. Most guys would fight their fellow men just to defend a lady. I once saw a guy slap his fellow guy just because he said he would slap a lady! Guys are always the ones who compromise for ladies and it's natural. Even in the family, guys always feel it's their duty to protect their sisters. It's easy to know what a guy likes and doesn't like so it makes it easy to control and manipulate by the ladies. Once you give a guy what he likes, he will do anything for you.
I will stop here for now because you may be tired of reading and it's the weekend let's go celebrity Islamic New Year!!!!

Just Saying✨😊

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