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Live Your Truth By Becoming A Better Humanbeing

1-Be who you want to see in others. Be authentic and honest about who you are.

2-Treat everyone with kindness and respect. Don't belittle or place anyone on a pedestal. We are all humans!

3- Recognize your flaws and shortcomings. Be self-aware and challenge yourself to grow.
4-Recognize your strengths and talents. Every human being has value and can contribute to something.
5- Learn from your mistakes. Forgive yourself. Don’t become a victim of your circumstances. Get up and glow, it's the best form of "revenge" and self-care.
6- Accept constructive criticism, even when it's unsolicited. You don't have to agree, but listening with an open mind can help you approach yourself and your life in new ways.
7 - Apologize when you’re wrong. Don't make excuses to justify your hurtful actions. Be humble, not prideful.
8- Educate yourself every day and let others educate you too. We all can learn from each other. Nobody knows and is right about everything.
9- Don’t just forget all the good someone has done to you when they hurt you. Look at the good they once did too.
10- Remember that self-improvement isn’t about reaching perfection. You will make many mistakes, be tested, and fall short, but the most important thing is to keep getting back up.

11- Distance yourself from people who are unkind to you and who don't appreciate you.
12- Stay away from places that drain and remind you of the things you’re trying to leave behind.
13 - Be done fighting for things that will never be resolved. Be done!
14- And if you feel stuck, unable to move on and heal yourself because you want answers as to why certain things occurred the way they did, I recommend you to come up with your own closure.
15- If people can’t give you closure, create it yourself. You must find a conclusion that will help heal and set you free.
Comfort yourself with your own analysis and understanding of the situation; even if it doesn’t make much sense. The key word here is PEACE; do whatever it takes to FIND IT!

Comments

  1. Life is just a lesson, we learn, become wiser, strong because of good people around us. Above all. Open your mind to learn new things

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  2. Wow exactly said, but what to do if it is precisely such people that surround you at work, and you are obliged to communicate with them. how to limit this communication without offending others

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  3. Totally agreed on all points. Specially we all have this, to forget very fast the good things that person does because of only one mistake. Yes, we must improve and change this.

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  4. Great advice thank you. I needed to hear that right now. ♥️

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  5. Spiritually uplifting, I'm strong 💪 but it's so dreadfully painful when u think of family 👪 which is so Devided, especially when you raise your children and they treat u like u don't exist, as well as other family members, but I'm okay, because I'm always the one speaking Truth to power, and people can't deal with Truth, but John 8: 31-32 talks about Truth and it is the Truth that will set u free, but in reality a lot people just don't want to be free!! Thanks Real Olufemi

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  6. Yes sometimes it happens n you don't realize it was the best thing that could've ever happened for you!

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  7. Self improvement is a challenging journey but Worth it you get to live in a better world with yourself

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  8. Very helpful nuggets

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