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A key to successfully navigating relationships is patience, forgiveness, and self-control.

It is true that relationships can be challenging, but practicing patience, forgiveness, and self-control can help you navigate through any rough patch you may experience.

The building of long-term relationships does not happen overnight. It is the result of overcoming turbulent moments that test our patience that lead to them.

I strongly believe that many relationships could be restored if most people had the humility to apologize and engage in difficult conversations.

Friend, you must not give up too quickly on relationships that are very important to you over the course of your lifetime. You should learn to forgive and be tolerant of others, just as you would like them to do the same for you.

Whenever you are in a difficult situation, you should be your own judge and not make decisions based on what others think you should be doing. Remember that just because things are rocky right now, does not mean that they will always be like that. It might just be a season that will come to an end.

As long as you are not in danger, fight for what you believe is important to you as long as you are not in danger. When it comes to letting go, you should only do so when holding on does more harm than good to you.

In your life, there will be moments when your relationships with your loved ones will become turbulent for a number of reasons. There will be times when things will not be easy and harmonious. There will be times when you will face challenges that you will have to practice patience, self-control, and forgiveness in order to overcome. 

It is unfortunate that the younger generation tends to give up too easily when conflicts arise in relationships when they arise within the family. Whenever there is a disagreement, people resort to blocking each other and moving on as soon as possible. Relationships shouldn't be based on this kind of behavior, and it is not how relationships are supposed to be. 

When it comes to human relationships, striving for perfection will only lead to frustration and a loss of self-confidence. You will always have people around you who will hurt you or offend you, whether it is on purpose or not. As a person, you need to know when to forgive someone and when to cut off all ties with them.

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  1. AnonymousJuly 9, 2023 at 9:09 AM

    Thank you for sharing this!! I needed it on this morning!!💔💔💔

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  2. AnonymousJuly 9, 2023 at 9:15 AM

    Yes but sometimes it feels like doing such means wasting time especially when the results remains the same and the situation is not changing.
    It is very easy to give up in such moments.
    But after what you've said "As long as you are not in danger, fight for what's important to you." I think it's worth giving it a try.
    Fem thanks for the motivation 🙏❤️🔥

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  3. AnonymousJuly 9, 2023 at 9:59 AM

    True dear, relationship needs patience.
    I had been in worst, before I met my husband, I told God, and I knew, this is going to be forever.
    How I'll rather give my life for him than do without him. This is forever until death even after death.

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  4. AnonymousJuly 9, 2023 at 10:01 AM

    Thanks a lot and that's absolutely good

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  5. VincentJuly 9, 2023 at 10:35 AM

    Indeed, I have witnessed similar experiences in a recent year

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  6. AnitaJuly 9, 2023 at 1:07 PM

    Thank you 🙏 for the advice ❤️

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