Don't ever abandon yourself because of someone else

When new people come into your life, it can be tempting to pour all your energy into your relationship with them, but you must remember that no one is worth emptying yourself over. No one!

A good person who feels and cares about you won't want you to abandon yourself or the people vou love for them. If someone tries to push you away from your loved ones who have always been there for you, that's a red flag.

Friend, find balance! Give to others, and invest in them, but always remember to keep some love and care for yourself too. If you died tomorrow, everyone's life would go on. So make sure you're not abandoning and emptying yourself while trying to love others.

In Spanish, there is a great quote that states:

"Si no me llenas, no se porque vaciarme contigo," which translates to "If you don't fill me, I don't see why I should empty myself with you."

Many people lose themselves in relationships.

They make everything about the person/people they're involved with whether amicably or romantically. They give so much to the extent of emptying themselves and this is not good.

Friend, life is all about balance. When you meet new people, don't forget about the old ones who've been there for you. When you find yourself in a romantic relationship, don't abandon your loved ones. Always save a little something just for yourself because everyone else is looking out for themselves and nobody is abandoning themselves for you.

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