Happiness" Built on Tears: Karma Is a Universal Donor

 

Life has a way of teaching lessons, often in the most unexpected and ironic ways. It’s tempting to chase happiness, sometimes at any cost, but when that pursuit involves causing pain to others, it rarely ends well. Let’s reflect on this through two stories—true examples of how selfish actions can have far-reaching consequences.

The Jealous Girl

There was a girl who harbored feelings for a guy already in a happy relationship. Instead of moving on, she decided to intervene. Carefully and deliberately, she sowed seeds of doubt and mistrust between the couple, eventually causing their breakup.

Her plan worked flawlessly, or so it seemed. She got the guy, and for a moment, everything appeared perfect. But karma has its own sense of timing. Not long after, the guy left her for another woman.

Heartbroken and humiliated, she turned to social media, venting her frustrations about how “all men are the same.” Yet, in her cries for sympathy, she conveniently ignored the pain she had inflicted on the woman whose relationship she destroyed. The cycle of hurt had come full circle, and her “happiness” was short-lived.

The Divisive Wife

In another instance, a woman married into a loving family. But instead of fostering unity, she began to isolate her husband from his relatives. She manipulated situations, creating conflicts and mistrust. The man, torn between his family and his wife, often chose to side with her—partly out of love, but also out of fear of losing his children.

For a time, it seemed like she had won. She had him all to herself, free from the perceived “interference” of his family. But the peace she desired came at a heavy price. Over time, the constant drama wore him down. The love he once had for her turned to resentment, and eventually, he left.

When her marriage ended, she realized she had no support system. The family she alienated wanted nothing to do with her, and even her children began to drift away, tired of the chaos she had created. Her pursuit of control left her isolated and unhappy.

The Lesson

These stories share a common thread: a pursuit of happiness at the expense of others. They remind us that every action has consequences, even if those consequences take time to manifest.

True happiness is never built on the tears of others. Manipulation, deceit, and selfishness may bring short-term victories, but they also sow the seeds of long-term regret and loneliness.

The Call for Reflection

If you’ve ever been tempted to prioritize your desires above someone else’s well-being, take a moment to reflect. Ask yourself:

• Would I feel good if the roles were reversed?
• Is this decision rooted in kindness and integrity?
• Am I prepared for the consequences of my actions?

Life is unpredictable, but one thing is certain: the energy we put out into the world always finds its way back to us. If we plant seeds of pain, we cannot expect to harvest joy.

Final Thoughts

The pursuit of happiness is a universal human goal, but the path we choose to achieve it matters. Let us strive to create joy that uplifts others rather than tears them down. Only then can we find peace that truly lasts.

What’s your take on these stories? Have you seen or experienced similar situations? Let’s continue the conversation in the comments below.