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Super strict parents create monsters they can’t handle.

Parents’ fears actually become a reality without realizing it. Under strict parenting. Kids maneuverer to being pathological liars to escape their parent's strictness. Experience low self-esteem as they get punished twice more. The very same girls who were never allowed to go out to build social cycle or had to obey early curfews. Such girls got pregnant first.

There are many children who have the best careers. Best houses. Best everything that doesn’t make them happy deep down. Because it was for the fulfillment of parents’ happiness but not theirs. Kids become emotionally neglected. Meaning they fail to understand and control their own feelings. Ultimately affects the ability to form friendships and relationships.
They’ll be raising their own children the same way they were raised as that’s the only way they know unless they realize the relationship with their parents was toxic. Super strict parents raise rebels. Introverts with anger issues are a ticking time bomb. Fear and respect have a fine line. Once a child is destroyed mentally it is difficult to help them. A tender young log bends easily without breaking but an old and hard one breaks.
Strict parenting can turn children into adept liars as they do not feel safe telling the truth.
No parent wants to raise their children telling lies, but if you're the kind of parent who is severely strict and by the book, then you may unconsciously be turning them into liars.
And not just any liar, but a very good liar.
Strict or overprotective parents raise the best liars.

Just Saying✨😊

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